February 27, 2007
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Contact: Sue@suemillerpresentations.com
WORKPLACE WISDOM NEWSLETTER
Attitude Makes a Difference!
Attitude is a tremendously defining characteristic.
Your attitude tells people everyday who you are.
You're tough to be around, wearing thin on colleagues
and family
OR
You're delightful to be around, engaging those around you.
In my workshops, I laughingly tell participants that the old “Popeye
Cartoon” image just doesn’t work anymore. Remember when Popeye used
to stand at the bow of his little boat, beat his chest like
Tarzan, and say to
the whole world, “I’m Popeye. I y’am. I y’am. I’m Popeye. I am who
I am!”
Remember?
What Popeye meant was that I am who I am. Take it or leave it. I
don’t need
to adjust. I don’t need to change. I don’t need to make other
people feel
good. I’m just who I am. Take me or leave me. PERIOD!!!
Well, poor Popeye. He got in lots of fights. And so do we when we
have that
“Popeye Attitude”.
YOU
ARE IN CHARGE OF YOU. YOUR LIFE IS YOUR CHOICE!
How you view the world is your choice.
Your ATTITUDE is your choice.
HERE
ARE "13 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR ATTITUDE”:
1. Stop blaming others. Take some responsibility.
2. Understand you have a choice. If you don't like where you are,
CHOOSE to move.
3. Recognize that your thinking directs your path. So, think
positively.
4. Invest time wisely. Spend an hour a day in anything. You’ll be
expert in 5 years.
5. Study the thoughts, writings, and lives of positive people.
6. Continue to learn. You’re never to old for courses, workshops,
seminars.
7. Examine your language. Your words are a reflection of your
heart and your mind.
8. Go out of your way to tell people what you like about them.
9. Lose the mood. If you’re moody, you’re a pain in the _______.
10. Drop your cynicism. You achieve nothing by being cynical.
11. Understand that winning AND losing are part of life. Celebrate your
wins.
12. Do something for someone who can’t possibly pay you back.
13. Count your blessings everyday. Make this list as long as
possible!
February 27, 2007
May not be reprinted without the consent of Sue Miller
Contact: Sue@suemillerpresentations.com
What a list!
You
would be a wonderful person if you practiced all these.
However, if we just practice them - a little at a time - as we
move through the weeks
ahead, we will all develop a better attitude. It is the "doing"
that
makes us better.
Practice these "13 Attitude Tips" to reinforce this
significant personal attribute.
You
see, I believe that ATTITUDE is coachable and learnable.
It is interesting to see that "ATTITUDE" is now
appearing on Employer Competency
Lists. Yes! We're being measured by our attitude because
employers know that
attitude makes a difference in performance!
I recommend taking one of these 13 Attitude Tips each week and
focus on that one
tip all week. Print the list. Place it in a viewable spot. Remind
yourself of this week's
tip. Look for opportunities to practice it. At the end of the
week, reflect and evaluate
yourself on the use of it.
So, you have 13 weeks of ideas to help you develop a better
attitude.
Reminder: We are never too old, too young, too
"retired", or too stuck in our
ways to work on our attitude.
Popeye
is an amusing cartoon, but he's not a good role model!